What a difference our choice of words makes!

Sometimes those of us in our later years are not able to express ourselves in the right terms even though we have the right idea. For example, a woman may say,

"What's wrong with her?" when she sees someone looking tired or weak in a group.

The person is more likely to be offended than if the older woman had said, "Is there something I can do for you?" to the tired person.

Another approach that has the affect of conveying acceptance or help might be like a friend who offered to help me at the party last night. She offered to help me pull my chair closer so I could hear the conversation of everyone at the table. I felt both included and helped by her kindness.

What a difference our choice of words makes!